(count silently to 10 and let that sink in)
Now repeat: nothing in life is free. Regardless of what we might think everything has an associated cost.
We don’t give much thought to how our tax money is spent, how much it costs to run a light bulb etc. If a movie or record loses money somewhere, someone is going to be responsible.
Nothing in life is free.
Nothing in life is free.
Is there a cost to bad behavior? Of course if you do drugs or act recklessly there could be an enormous price to pay. But what about our seemingly common everyday interactions with others and how we go about our days?
If we drill down a little deeper, it becomes clear that human behavior has a cost.
Here are a few questions to think about:
- Are you willing to take risks to build your career?
- Are you willing to invest your time and money to create assets that will attract paying clients?
- Are you willing to evaluate your efforts honestly?
- Are you willing to acknowledge your behavior may be affecting your success?
- Are you willing to change if what you are doing isn’t working?
Amateurs often assume that a career is there for the taking. Professionals understand that an investment must be made to see a return.
Making good choices.
You can only get out of life what you are willing to put into it. The good news is that you have the ability to choose what you want out of your life and career.
We continually make choices. When contemplating making an investment in your career what makes us able to determine which choice would be the best choice to make?
For some of us, choices are a result of considered deliberation. Other choices are a conditioned response.
For example: if you continually sabotage yourself there is a good chance that deep down you don’t believe you are worthy of success. These choices reinforce what we believe about ourselves.
Another example is being on time. Tardiness is a control issue. If someone consistently keeps you waiting, it is a form of control over the relationship by saying “my time is worth more than yours”.
Nevertheless, even if this was an unconscious choice, a choice was made.
And what would be the cost of this choice? Are you willing to waste your time? Would your client be willing to waste their time waiting for you?
Nothing in life is free.
In every choice we make there are costs-even if they aren't apparent at first glance.
If you are committed to being a professional and choosing to invest your time, money and reputation, be sure you are aware of the both the obvious and subliminal costs associated with your actions.
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